One of the best interviews!!!

Interviewer: Tell me about yourself.

Candidate: I am SAMEER GUPTA. I did my Tele Communication engineering from
BabanRao Dhole-Patil Institute of Technology.

Interviewer: BabanRao Dhole-Patil Institute of Technology? I had never heard
Of this college before!

Candidate: Great! Even I had not heard of it before getting an admission
Into it . What happened is - due to cricket world cup I scored badly! In 12th.I
Was getting a paid seat in a good college. But my father said (I prefer to
Call him ‘baap’) - “I can not invest so much of money”.(The baap actually said
- “I will never waste so much of money on you”). So I had to join this
College. Frankly speaking this name - BabanRao Dhole-Patil, can at the most be
Related to a Shetakari Mahavidyalaya.

Interviewer: ok, ok. It seems you have taken 6 years to complete your
Engineering.

Candidate: Actually I tried my best to finish it in 4 years. But you
Know, these cricket matches and football world cup, and tennis
Tournaments. It is difficult to concentrate. So I flunked in 2nd and
3rd year. So in all I took 4 + 2 = 7 years.

Interviewer: But 4+2 is 6.

Candidate: Oh, is it? You know I always had KT in maths. But I will try
To keep this in mind. 4+2 is 6, good, thanks. These cricket matches
Really affect exams a lot. I think they should ban it.

Interviewer: Good to know that you want cricket matches to be banned.

Candidate: No, no… I am talking about Exams!!

Interviewer: Ok, What is your biggest achievement in life?

Candidate: Obviously, completing my Engineering. My mom never thought I
Would complete it. In fact, when I flunked in 3rd year, she was looking for a job
For me in BEST (Bus corporation in Maharashtra) through some relative.

Interviewer: Do you have any plans of higher study?

Candidate: he he he.. Are you kidding? Completing ‘lower’ education
Itself was so much of pain!!

Interviewer: Let’s talk about technical stuff. On which platforms have
You worked?

Candidate: Well, I work at SEEPZ, so you can say Andheri is my current
Platform. Earlier I was at Vashi center. So Vashi was my platform then. As you can
See I have experience of different platforms! (Vashi and Andheri are the
Places in Mumbai)

Interviewer: And which languages have you used?

Candidate: Marathi, Hindi, English. By the way, I can keep quiet in
German, French, Russian and many other languages.

Interviewer: Why VC is better than VB?

Candidate: It is a common sense - C comes after B. So VC is a higher
Version than VB. I heard very soon they are coming up with a new
Language VD!

Interviewer: Do you know anything about Assembly Language?

Candidate: Well, I have not heard of it. But I guess, this is the
Language our ministers and MPs use in assembly.

Interviewer: What is your general project experience?

Candidate: My general experience about projects is - most of the times
They are in pipeline!

Interviewer: Can you tell me about your current job?

Candidate: Sure, Currently I am working for Bata InfoTech Ltd. Since
Joining BIL, I am on Bench. Before joining BIL, I used to think that
Bench was another software like Windows.

Interviewer: Do you have any project management experience?

Candidate: No, but I guess it shouldn’t be difficult. I know Word and
Excel. I can talk a lot. I know how to dial for International phone call
And use speaker facility. And very important - I know few words like -
‘Showstoppers ‘ , ‘hotfixes’,
‘SEI-CMM’,'quality’,'versioncontrol’,'deadlines’ , ‘Customer
Satisfaction’ etc. Also I can blame others for my mistakes!

Interviewer: What are your expectations from our company?

Candidate: Not much.

1. I should at least get 40,000 in hand.

2. I would like to work on a live EJB project. But it should not have
Deadlines. I personally feel that pressure affects natural talent.

3. I believe in flexi-timings.

4. Dress code is against basic freedom, so I
Would like to wear t-shirt and jeans.

5. We must have sat-sun off. I will suggest Wednesday off also, so as to
Avoid breakdown due to overwork.

6. I would like to go abroad 3 times a year on short term
preferably 2-4 months) assignments. Personally I prefer US, Australia and
Europe. But considering the fact that there is a world cup in West Indies in
2007, I don’t mind going there in that period. As you can see I am modest and
don’t have many expectations. So can I assume my selection?

Interviewer: he he he ha ha ha. Thanks for your interest in our
organization. In fact I was never entertained so much before. Welcome to
INFOSYS .. :-))

No intention to offend anybody..

My mom only had one eye. I hated her… she was such an embarrassment. My mom ran a small shop at a flea market. She collected little weeds and such to sell… anything for the money we needed she was such an embarrassment. There was this one day during elementary school.

I remember that it was field day, and my mom came. I was so embarrassed.

How could she do this to me? I threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school…”Your mom only has one eye?!” and they taunted me.

I wished that my mom would just disappear from this world so I said to my mom, “Mom, why don’t you have the other eye?! You’re only going to make me a laughingstock. Why don’t you just die?” My mom did not respond. I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I’d wanted to say all this time.

Maybe it was because my mom hadn’t punished me, but I didn’t think that I had hurt her feelings very badly.

That night…I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, and then turned away.

Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart. Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful, because I hated my one-eyed mom and our desperate poverty.

Then I studied really hard. I left my mother and came to Seoul and studied, and got accepted in the Seoul University with all the confidence I had. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. Then I had kids, too. Now I’m living happily as a successful man. I like it here because it’s a place that doesn’t remind me of my mom.

This happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when someone unexpected came to see me “What?! Who’s this?!” …It was my mother…Still with her one eye. It felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. My little girl ran away, scared of my mom’s eye.

And I asked her, “Who are you? I don’t know you!!!” as if I tried to make that real. I screamed at her “How dare you come to my house and scare my daughter! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!” And to this, my mother quietly answered, “oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address,” and she disappeared. Thank good ness… she doesn’t recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn’t going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life.

Then a wave of relief came upon me…one day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. I lied to my wife saying that I was going on a business trip. After the reunion, I went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house…just out of curiosity there, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand…. it was a letter to me.

She wrote:

My son…

I think my life has been long enough now. And… I won’t visit Seoul anymore… but would it be too much to ask if I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much. And I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the school…. For you… I’m sorry that I only have one eye, and I was an embarrassment for you.

You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mother, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye… so I gave you mine…I was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did. The couple times that you were angry with me.

I thought to myself, ‘it’s because he loves me.’ I miss the times when you were still young around me

I miss you so much. I love you. You mean the world to me.

My world shattered!!!

Then I cried for the person who lived for me… My Mother

A little boy wanted to meet God. He knew it was a long trip to where God lived, so he packed his suitcase with a bag of potato chips and a six-pack of root beer and started his journey.

When he had gone about three blocks, he met an old woman. She was sitting in the park, just staring at some pigeons. The boy sat down next to her and opened his suitcase. He was about to take a drink from his root beer when he noticed that the old lady looked hungry, so he offered her some chips. She gratefully accepted it and smiled at him.

Her smile was so pretty that the boy wanted to see it again, so he offered her a root beer. Again, she smiled at him. The boy was delighted! They sat
there all afternoon eating and smiling, but they never said a word.

As twilight approached, the boy realized how tired he was and he got up to leave; but before he had gone more than a few steps, he turned around, ran back to the old woman, and gave her a hug. She gave him her biggest smile ever.

When the boy opened the door to his own house a short time later, his mother was surprised by the look of joy on his face. She asked him, “What did you do today that made you so happy?” He replied, “I had lunch with God.” But before his mother could respond, he added, “You know what? She’s got the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen!”

Meanwhile, the old woman, also radiant with joy, returned to her home. Her son was stunned by the look of peace on her face and he asked, “Mother, what  did you do today that made you so happy?” She replied! “I ate potato chips in the park with God.” However, before her son responded, she added, “You know, he’s much younger than I expected.”

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of

which have the potential to turn a life around. People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime! Embrace all equally!

From the very Begining, the girl’s family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.

Due to family’s pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: “How deep is your love for me?”

As the guy is not good with his words, this often cause the girl to be very upset. With that & the family’s pressure, the girl often vent her anger on him. As for him, he only endure it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: “I’m not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I’ll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?”

The girl agreed, & with the guy’s determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leave, they got engaged.

The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it’s hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realised that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice……

The doctors says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents’ comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.

During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry,…..it’s still just silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart everytime it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phonecalls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying….

The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.

With a new environment, the girl learn sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he’s back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn’t anymore news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy’s wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.

When she was about to ask her friend what’s going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her “I’ve spent a year’s time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I’ve not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.

Today the interview of patni computers was scheduled on 8.30 a.m . I was somewhat fearing so  i asked my friend sagar to go with me in the morning .He says fine I just awake him in the morning and he will go with me. In the morning I awake at 6 am and after being prepared for interview I leave at 7.45 and I see sagar was sleeping well and I didn’t awake him and think that let him sleep . I reached there at 8.00 am and my interview held at 8.45. In the morning there was not any friend of mine there and till 45 minutes I just wait up in a lonely way there .During that period second thoughts occupied my mind and i become too much nervous before the interview. In front of the interviewer today i was sweating and my fluency get sucked. So finally I was not able to present myself in a better way . Perhaps I have taken any of my friend with me who boost up my confidence there .

Charles Schultz Philosophy

The following is the philosophy of Charles Schultz, the creator of the ‘Peanuts’ comic strip. You don’t have to actually answer the questions. Just read the e-mail straight through, and you’ll get the point.

1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.

2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.

3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America.

4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.

5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winner for best actor and actress.

6. Name the last decade’s worth of World Series winners.

How did you do?

The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. These are no second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners .

Here’s another quiz. See how you do on this one:

1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.

2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.

3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.

4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.

5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with .

Easier?

The lesson: The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care .

I found it in some where in Tag suffer ……. read it really deep and heart touching ………..

What if the world was silenced for one day?
The music stopped, the cars made no sound,
The world was silent for a single day.

And what if you could speak just once,
And to only one person.
What would you say, and to whom.
Ponder this, and think a while.

What if all the words in the world
Were left unsaid unless they needed speaking.
What if just for once, the clumsy words we use
Were finally turned to joyful noise and
Allowed to become the power they are.

What if you could hear just once,
Who would you listen to, and why?
What if silence was a way of life,
And speaking was not so important.
It’s better to listen than to speak,
And to whisper loud, than yell quiet.

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Satyajeet: No man ,I was telling you that I am serious on writing. If you have time, I will paste you what I wrote on Satyajit Ray as a FILM Maker

Neeraj: so when u r going to mail that “Satyajit Ray as a FILM Maker”

Am I a child or an adult ?
No ! Not a child now - my dolls are gone;
My dream world has rippled1 away.
I am tall, I understand adult talk,
But does that mean that I am an adult ?
Am I an adult or a child ?
No ! Not an adult – I couldn’t look after myself;
The understanding is just not there.
I pay a half fare on a bus to school,
But does that mean that I am a child ?
Am I a child or an adult ?
No ! Not a child now - it’s not a teddy I love;
His cherished2 position is taken.
Just because my toys have lost their value,
Does that mean that I am an adult?
Am I an adult or a child ?
No ! Not an adult - I do not see
The reasons for adult disputes3;
I am safe in non- understanding.
But does that mean that I am a child?
Well, am I a child or an adult ?
No ! Not one or the other now;
One pace in front of childhood,
And one behind an adult.
Soon I shall stride4 into a new world,
The world of adult life.

This is a story of when I was 5 years old .One day my father and uncle  was out for work and mama and aunts has gone to  temple.I was left with my elder brothers.I feels like drinking the tea.As no one was there and my  elder brothers also left with their friends so I  think I would make on my own .At that time I thinks might be my mama and aunt will be tired and will like to have some tea when they come. So I make the tea as well for them.I finally have my tea and I finds sleepy. But at that moment I thinks that I am  going to sleep and it may happen when my  mother and aunt come the tea may go cold and they will have to take the  burden of making the tea hot again .So for the first time I thinks logically and apply my brain and what I  did I  keep the container of tea on gas and leave the gas in ignition state and go to sleep. After 1 or 1.30 hour my mama and aunt come to home and what they observe  there was a sharp burning smell coming out of the kitchen.When they go inside the kitchen and what they see the gas in ignition state and whole the container get burned.That was the first time i remember my mother got angry to me.

But after listening my innocent reason of doing this my  mother forget all her anger and hugs me for a long time.

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home.. Suddenly he asked the waiter:

“Would you please give me some salt? I’d like to put it in my coffee.”

Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but, still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.

She asked him curiously: why you have this hobby?

He replied: “when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there”.

While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.

That’s his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home.. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family.

That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him!

Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life… And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that’s the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: “My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you—the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.

I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything..

Now I’m dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don’t like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again”.

Her tears made the letter totally wet.

Someday, someone asked her: what’s the taste of salty coffee? It’s sweet. She replied.

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I always wonder which is a better relation of the two that can exist between a girl and a boy. First one is the most transparent relation, that is, friendship and second one is commitment, where, both persons pretend to be in love with each other. Means both of them are not sure whether it is love or not but feel attracted to each other and they decide to end up in commitment. Both of them live their love fantasies in such a type of relation. After that a virtual possession comes in between them. Yes, it is true that in such a kind of relationship their love fantasies are satisfied but do they realize that the relationship between the two of them does not remain as transparent as it was before! Every time both of them have to pretend that they love each other.
I remember a small incident that happened to one of my friends. He decided to get committed to a girl over the internet, after some time of friendship with her and they started satisfying their love fantasies .One day the girl’s parents caught her talking to my friend late night . This brought an end to their so called “commitment”. The feeling of love among the two was lost. They faced a break up .To my shock , soon I saw my friend getting committed to another girl which perhaps was a similar case.
I still wonder what have they gained and what they have lost. The gain was the fulfillment of their love fantasies for a specific period of time but at the same time they have lost a person in their life who could have had proved to be a very good friend. During friendship we always present ourselves as what we are but in case of commitment we always try to be pretend in order to impress the other person .So I always question the fact that, is satisfying of our love fantasies so important that we can suffer a loss of a good friend over that? Is it advisable to be some one else for a commitment which we are not even sure of? Do give a thought

We do love someone and want that he or she should be with us every time. We have  got the feeling of jealousy if we find our love is talking to other person . We might see the wife arguing a  husband if he comes late .Husband asking a lot of questions if he finds wife out of home. So what we are doing in all these cases we are  showing our possession on the other person .We are making feel that other person is our soul property and he should behave as we want. Yes of course there is love that’s why we are showing so right on other person. But behaving like this , expecting other person to behave every time according to you will really prove that how much we love the other person.Will it ensure that the other person will understand your love like this and stay with u forever.Let me tell u a short story .There is an uncle of mine whose wife really loves him the most .She loves him in such a way that the love is converted in possessiveness.She always  feel jealous if he talks to the other girls. She always restrict him to talk to other girls.Tries that he should be with him every time. Then this possessiveness is increased to such extent that she also felt jealousness of the closeness of him to his mother and father too. She thinks that by doing this her husband will always be with her .But she was wrong .With the course of time he start to feel like that he is living in a jail. The more his wife tries to attract him towards her more he is going away from her .By the course of time the face of her wife become more irritating to him. Her wife cries that what wrong has she has done.She think that she has taken so much  care of him and still he does not want me in his life .So really what wrong has he done .We shouldn’t posses someone so much that the person will feel suffocation in it.I really remember a line of movie Ishq Vishq which was love is like a word.If he wants to go let him .If he returns than only it was your love otherwise it was never yours.Yes we do hurt if we find that our love is giving importance to others more than us. But if it is so than  by putting our love in a pigeon will not make it ours.Might be it will be physically close to u but mentally it will go far far away.Love is like we are caring for other person without expecting anything from him .

We often say this statement that the beauty lies in the viewer’s eyes. How much this statement is correct? Can the same thing that seems too ugly or bad for someone can be the most beautiful thing for other person? Or the thing that seems beautiful today might becomes ugly for the same person in a period of time? So first question how do we define beauty? Beauty refers to the scene or sight which we see from our eyes and provides pleasure to our mind.So a thing is a beautiful is mainly depends on the perspective of the person who is watching it and the intension of the person with which that person is seeing that thing . A religious place at ayodhya might be the most beautiful sight for a religious person and the same sight will be the most ugly and useless for a atheist. If a person is thirsty than the sight of river will be the most pleasurable  sight for him. So the beauty also lies desire of the mind means what the mind want to see at that instant.

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous …
then it’s not love..
it’s - Infatuation . . .

If you love some one because you think that you shouldn’t leave him because
others think that you shouldn’t … then it’s not love..
it’s - compromise . . .

If you love some one because you think that you cannot live with out his touch ….
then it’s not love ..
it’s - lust . . .

If you love some one because you have been kissed by him …
then it’s not love..
it’s - inferiority complex . . .

If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..
then it’s not love ..
it’s - charity . . .

If you love some one because you share every thing with him …
then it’s not love..
it’s - friendship . . .

but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable
and you cry for him ..
that’s - LOVE . . .

if you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets..
that’s - LOVE . . .

If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn’t want to..
that’s - LOVE . . .

hey this is very interesting love latter …..

from both side .. boy and girl …

boy little bit confused …. but girl clear every thing ….

A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate.

My Dearest Reshma,

Please answer the following questionnaire. For Options

(A) 10 marks,
(b) 5marks and
(c) 3 marks.

**********

1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:

(a) of love
(b) you couldn’t control seeing me
(c) really … am I doing it?

**********

2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:

(a) you always like to see me smiling
(b) you are testing whether I like jokes
(c) you are attracted by my smile

**********

3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:

(a) you are so coy to sing before me
(b) my presence influenced you
(c) you feared that whether I’ll like your song

**********

4) When you were showing your childhood photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:

(a) you felt ashamed
(b) you felt uneasy
(c) you don’t know

**********

5) During trekking, myself and my friend gave you hand for lifting you and you took only my friend’s because:

(a) you enjoyed my disappointment
(b) you won’t feel leaving my hand after grabbing
(c) you don’t know

**********

6) You were waiting yesterday for bus and didn’t get into your bus…

(a) you were waiting for me
(b) you were dreaming about me and didn’t notice the bus
(c) that bus was crowded

**********

7) You introduced me to your parents when they came to college because:

(a) I am going to be your groom
(b) you just want to know what your parents think about me
(c) just you felt like introducing me to them

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I told that I like girls wearing roses. Next day, you came with a rose on your head because:

(a) to fulfill my wish
(b) you like roses
(c) by chance you got a rose

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9) On that day, it was my birthday. you too came to temple early at 6:00 A.M because:

(a) you want to pray along with me
(b) you want to meet me before any one could meet on my birthday
(c) you want to wish me at temple because you are spiritual.

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If you have scored more than 40, then you are loving me. Don’t delay in expressing it.

If you have scored between 30 and 40, love is budding in your heart and it’s getting ready to bloom. If you have scored less than 30, you are in confusion whether to love me or not.

Eagerly awaiting your reply..

Love, Aakash

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Now ,

Reshma’s reply letter was also in Q/A format……..

Aakash,

Please answer the following Yes/No questionnaire.

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1) If somebody sits in the first row, normally people entering the class, sees them.

(a) Yes (b) No

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2) If a girl laughs and looks anyone, is it love?

(a) Yes (b) No

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3) While singing, if somebody forgets lines of the songs, will he/she stop singing or not?

(a) Yes (b) No

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4) I was showing to my friends (who are all girls) my childhood photo.

You poked your nose inside….. right ?

(a) Yes (b) No

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5) I avoided to hold your hand during trekking. Couldn’t you understand yet?

(a) Yes (b) No

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6) Should I not wait for my best friend (Anjali) at the bus stand?

(a)Yes (b) No

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7) Shouldn’t I introduce you to my parents as a friend?

(a) Yes (b) No

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You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana’s flower. Is it true ?

(a) Yes (b) No

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9) Oh was that your birthday. That’s why I could see you in temple. I come daily to Temple. Do you know ?

(a) Yes (b) No

If you have answered “Yes” to any of the question, then I am not loving you. If you have answered “No”, then you don’t know the meaning of Love.

Hope everything is clear to you.

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A student asks a teacher, “What is love?”

The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders….may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one… but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, “…this is love… you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person….”

“What is marriage then?” the student asked.

The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, “this time you bring back a corn…. you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get…. this is marriage.”*

Have You Ever Given A THOUGHT
What Life Has Become All ABOUT
Our WINDOWS Open On The Face Of GATES
When It Should Be Our LIFE-MATES

We Play Around With MOUSE
When It Should Be Our SPOUSE
Always Our Hands Are On The KEYS
When It Should Be On Our ‘WOULD-BEES’

How Long Can You Go On CODING
When You Should Be At Ooty BOATING
Hey You Robots Running After CAREER
Listen To This MATTER

Behind every successful man is a WOMAN
Behind every successful woman is a MAN
And That You Cannot Get Fiddling Alone With LAN-WAN
Life Is Not Just COBOL,
It Is Also PYAR-KE-DO-BOL(sharing moments of love)

Life Is Not Just C-PLUS-PLUS
It Is Also love-PLUS-PLUS
Life Is Not Just DEBUGGING
It Is Also HUGGING…..

SO Once In A While Think TWICE
Life Will Be So NICE
If One Gets Out Of ‘if-then-else’ & WHILE LOOPS
And Goes Out With Friends For Dates, FRUIT-SALADS & SOUPS

C’mon End This Life Of ROBOTISM
And Fill It With ROMANTICISM
C’mon All The Software Romeos (And Juliets)
Lets Take A Vow

All Boring ROUTINES
And SUB-ROUTINES
PROCEDURES Out Will We THROW
And Seeds Of LOVE And CARE Shall We Sow

“I am the one I have been looking for.” –Iyanla Vanzant

We spend so much of our time waiting to be loved, hoping love will find us, searching, yearning for that special love. Feeling empty and lost without it. Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. Unfortunately, that’s not usually how life works. You will draw to you exactly what you create in life, and what you believe you are worthy of. So loving yourself can create love in your life.

Steps

1. Take a realistic evaluation of yourself. Be honest with yourself about how valuable you believe you are as a person. The way you see yourself and treat yourself is the very way others will see you and treat you. Do you see yourself as valuable, worthy of the gift of love? More importantly, do you treat yourself lovingly and as a valuable being? It’s ok to be truthful with yourself, it may not be pretty! Awareness is the first and more powerful step on the path to change!
2. Forgive yourself if you ever believe you aren’t worthy of love. After all, there were probably things in your childhood or previous years that created that belief for you. It simply isn’t true; every being on this planet is worthy of love, after all, love is what we are here for, it’s what it’s all about. Say to yourself now; “I forgive myself for believing that I was not worthy of love.” Go look in a mirror and say it out loud to yourself, look yourself right in the eyes and say it like you mean it. Go on, I’ll wait.
3. Post this affirmation up someplace where you will see it each and every day; “I have the courage to believe that I am worthy of love.” Read it out loud, every day, at least once, ideally at least ten times each time you notice it. Sticky notes are fabulous for affirmations.
4. Take action and make those words real. Begin loving and valuing yourself. It is said that you cannot give away what you do not have. So, if you are not able to love and accept yourself unconditionally, how in the world are you going to love and accept anyone else unconditionally? Much less accept that love in return from them?
5. Remember that love is not a feeling, it is a choice! Make the choice to love yourself. After all, who deserves it more? The more loving you are to yourself, the more loving you will be able to be to everyone around you. Family and friends will especially benefit from this. Make a choice to come from a place of love for yourself and for everyone who is important in your life.
6. Think about what you need to fill that emptiness inside, that place that is longing for love. What specifically do you need? Find the answer and then give it to yourself. No one is more capable of loving you, and giving you exactly what you need than you are! When you learn how to fulfill yourself in that way, you stop searching for it outside of yourself and you suddenly begin attracting it to you! You change yourself from a sponge to a magnet! People see you radiating self love and they are drawn to you!
7. Keep a journal. Write about your experiences, good and bad. When you write down your good experiences allow yourself to feel those good feelings again. When you remember the bad experiences, allow yourself to feel pride. Pride because you faced a challenge in your life and you are here today to write about it, which must mean you are a survivor and a fighter. Tell yourself, “I know pain, but I’ve yet to be introduced to surrender.” Keep on keeping on

Tips

• Here’s something to try saying every day. Place it on your mirror. It always helps: “Look in the mirror and what do I see? A beautiful boy staring back at me Oh wow! I thought, who could that be?, [smile and say] Oh! It’s most definitely me!”

Warnings

• Don’t become too narcissistic or people won’t like you.
• Self-love is okay, but in excess, it becomes quite the turn off when it turns into narcissism and you expect people to always notice you and your needs.

I found this post some where in net . and found it use full for us …..

Myself Nitin  and I m friend of Neeraj  this is my story …

At one moment of life i find a girl and after talking to her i feel that she is the one for me .Whenever she shares her problem to me i cry more than her .Everytime i keep on dreaming for her .Every time i keep on thinking that what shoud i tell to her that makes her happy . So i was began to feel that i am in serious love to her . This has started hurting me a lot as when she cries in front of me my whole day is ruined to think that how could i make her happy .

So to find out wether this is love or infactuation i asked a question to myself .I asked that suppose there are having my exam she has got an accident or she needed me badly then wether i go for her or not?

The first thought comes in my mind was of my career that how can i ruin my career at this critical stage .

So I first thing I love most is my career.

Then second thought come in my mind was of my parents that how can i betray the expectatios of my family for a girl .

So I love my parents at the second priority .

And the third thought come in my mind was of that what will the people around me thinks about me .So i get that I love my reputation at the third priority .

So I got that wether this is love or infactuation and i came out of this infactuation.

The Story About Love That Never Dies…

Love is always patient and kind.
It is never jealous.
Love is never boastful or conceited.
It is never rude or selfish.
It does not take offense and is not resentful.
Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins,
but delights in the truth.
It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope,
and to endure whatever comes.

this is a movie which i love n will love forever !!!!! most romantic movie where love n relationships are without any conditions and boundaries…..LOVE just happens ……u’ll never know when….so spread love n feel it …you never know your love may be just a “moment” far!!!!………

This post is about a great American movie that talk about love between two young and complicated persons Landon and jamie.
Landon was a rebel that were always in confusion and Jamie was a religious and boring girl .When they fell in love their lives changed a lot!
If you didn’t watch this movie,do it . It’s the most perfect love story that I’ve ever watched in my whole life.

In this movie some line that u never forget ..

Landon: I’m sorry she never got her miracle.
Reverend Sullivan: She did. It was you.
this was seriously ONE of the best line !!

‘Our Love Is Like The Wind, You Can’t See it, But You Can Feel It‘

Landon: [upset] Are you scared?
Jamie: To death… [Landon still looks upset] Lighten up.
Landon: It’s not funny.
Jamie: I’m scared of not being with you.
Landon: Oh baby, that’ll never happen… I’ll be here

and most beautiful line is when jamie told to Landon “ Promise me you will never fall in love with me “ that shows her confidence …..

What is love .. ?? :O

Every person have different opinion about it, some says …love is

Patience TRUST Sacrifice PASSION Pain INSPIRATION Everything UNDERSTANDING Mystery HAPPINESS and for me love is always love.. it doesn’t need any description….

The Story of Soulmates Reunited …

I read this book 10 days before .and after reading this book suddenly i have some believe in soul mate kind of things and recognize just meet them for the first time.

Dr. Weiss deals with the concept of reincarnation and past lives as learnt through his experience with his patients as a psychiatrist. He chronicles the life of his two patients in this book to explain how he came to believe in the concept of past lives while treating his patients using hypnosis. He constantly refers to his previous works in order to explain and give a logical backing to his statements.

Only Love is Real talks of soul mates. As per Dr. Weiss, every soul has some mates with whom it bonds so well that it is bound to meet them repeatedly, life after life. He believes that a soul can have many soul mates and their gender and relationship does not matter. For example, my mother in this life could be a special soul I bond with and she could have been my daughter or my husband in one of my previous lives! Sounds weird? I know, it does. The author realizes this as well. He constantly backs up his theories with proofs and scientific logic and tries to gain reader’s faith. I am not saying, I agree with him on all points, but the book has made me think and want to believe.

The author also believes that bonded souls are destined to meet each other; sometimes they recognize each other instantly and sometimes the opportunity is lost. The book is worth a read. I suggest you pick it up with an open mind and then, make up your mind only after finishing it. If nothing else, you will enjoy the various examples shared from patients lives.

This book is all about people who believes that all the ones whom we love who are near and dear to us, have always been along us, either in the previous lives or the next life to come.
It might be the case, that the our brother or sister in the previous birth would be our father or close friends. And similarly, our mother can be our own son or daughter earlier. Thus what all i wanted to say was that, the cycle revolves around the same people.

Thats is why, its only love that is real. Thats is the reason why souls reunite in every birth because of the intense love. Thats the only power why we feel, for some of our friends, that we know them form century, but the fact would be that we have just meet them for the first time.
Its only because the souls or the energy, recognises each other.